Which std. (ITX/ATX) server (/or workstation) mobo for ESXi 6.5

Hi guys. Building a server used for SOHO back office and high end test/devel

I want the board to support ESXi 6.5 fully NICS, I/O passthruough. Furthermore it should:

1) have IPMI/iKVM

2) Support at least 64 GB DDR4, preferable 128 GB

3) low power usage

Any suggestions?

Regards, Lars.